February 14, 2010

Why Not Me?

What's a nice guy like me doing on a funky blog like this? Why am I showing my sexy side on the net in hopes of finding a special buddy?

If there are plenty of fish in the sea, why can't I land a good catch? Better still, why hasn't a good catch hunted me down, reeled me in and gobbled me up?

The answers await in Why Am I Single?

February 12, 2010

The Big Dick Picture

Why do most personal ads seeking black men want those black men to be hung, dominate tops?

What else can a black man be? A normal guy with an average dick? A man who's neither dominate nor submissive? A man who doesn't care to discuss his penis size, no matter its length?

One time, a white female co-worker of mine asked me: is it true what they say about black men?

If I had asked about her vagina, would that have been sexual harassment? How about if I gave her a link to my funky post: How Big Is My Dick?

February 10, 2010

I Brake for Jocks

I am not gay, nor have I ever been gay. I repeat, gay does not = me.

I'm capable of having sex with a man or a woman, but I can only imagine being in love, soul to soul, with a man.

Why? Who's to truly say, but I'm pretty sure it has something to do with being Jock Crazy!

February 9, 2010

Racism with a Little Kindness

Recently, I read an online personal ad that said: white and Latin guys only. Sorry, don't want to waste anybody's time.

This is what I call the generous racist. "I've prejudged all non-whites and Latins, sight unseen, to be unattractive and unworthy of my sexual and romantic energy, and I'm going to be generous about it by telling the world up front, so I don't waste any of you's non-white and Latino guys' time."

He may be a racist, but he's a magnanimous one!

WHITES AND LATINS ONLY, a photo essay using gay men's online language in images reminiscent of the segregated Old South, now on my author blog.

February 6, 2010

A Love Story Waiting to Happen

I dream of Hollywood making a romantic movie where an HIV-negative man falls in love with an HIV-positive man and the two live happily ever after, that is, of course, after all kinds of fun, romance and hilarious adventure!

It could happen, you know. Neg people falling for poz people and vice versa. All it takes is an HIV-negative man who's educated enough about HIV/AIDS to know he can have all the great sex he wants with a man who's HIV-positive and never acquire the virus.

Is Hollywood brave enough? Are there any HIV-negative men educated enough and compassionate enough to not see all HIV-positive men as dirty and disease-ridden (as opposed to disease-free)?

I do believe in miracles. I do believe in miracles.

February 3, 2010

Sexy Black?

Recently, when I went to a place where only real gay men roam, I knew better than to expect the other gay men there to evaluate me based on my looks, my personality, my talents, my sexiness. Heck, most of the men there didn't bother to look me in the eye, let alone see what I had to offer.

Why? Most gay men prefer WHITES AND LATINS ONLY, while Least Wanted: Black Gay Men.

Lucky for me, I knew this and was able to spend my time focusing on guys who hadn't prejudged me as not worthy of their attention, solely based on the color of my skin and their preconceived notions about race.

Oh, but these same gay men are not prejudice or racist, right? lol