Why do so many gay men feel the need to say things, like, DISEASE-FREE, NO BUGS, SUPER CLEAN, UB2?
Saying these things makes a person ugly. Insensitivity is downright unattractive. Yet these words are more than commonplace online. Makes me wanna scream, then open up a can of whoop ass on somebody's head, but I know better.
Instead I ask, HIV-Neg Guys: Must You Hurt My Feelings? And to those who just don't get it, I have a cup of patience and try to explain Why the Term “Disease-Free” Hurts My Feelings. Here's hoping somebody's listening.