Wanted: Someone Not Obsessed with Dick Size

And the award for Question Most Asked in My Lifetimes goes to ... How Big Is Your Dick?

Not Wanted: Disease-Ridden Blacks

If online personal ads are any indication, most gay men, regardless of race, are looking for WHITES AND LATINS ONLY who are "clean and disease-free."

That's definitely not who I am. I'm a black man living with AIDS.

Imagine seeing a personal ad that appeals to you, only to look deeper and find out the other person has automatically pre-judged you to be unacceptable due to your skin color and/or a virus they don't have to acquire.

Happens with the majority of personal ads I come across. Still, I'd Rather Be Me.

Wanted: One Buddy with a Brain

A man's gotta have a good head on his shoulders to get with me.

If he's HIV-positive, he's gotta be smart enough to take of himself so we can both live a long and healthy life. If he's HIV-negative, he's gotta be smart enough to fully understand that two men can have great sex, regardless of HIV status, as long as two men practice safe sex (and practice often!)

Are there men in America who are smart enough, rational enough, adult enough, mature enough, enlightened enough and strong enough to get to know a great man, regardless of my HIV status? I sure do hope so.

Any buddy out there?

• Also check out, How To Love Someone with AIDS, now on my author blog.

And Then He Smiled at Me

What puts a smile on my face the most? Find out When You See Me Smile.

Buddies with Balls

Basketball is more fun when when it's Buddy Ball.

Afterward, it's Buddy, Lemme Smell Your Pits!

What Makes a Man Straight?

Men fuck around with other men. I know because I'm one of them. And I will not take this "fag" rap alone.

What is a fag? A man who only fucks around with men? A man who admits to fucking around with men? A man who walks, talks and acts like a sissy? How many blow jobs from another man does it take to make you a fag?

Men fuck around with other men. What makes a man straight? Marriage? Kids? A manly voice? Talking about pussy all the time? Your preconceived notions about men and fags?

If baseball heroes can smile on camera and lie about steroids, is it possible that baseball heroes can smile on camera and lie about fucking around with other men?

What makes a man a fag? What makes him a man? Who's doing what to whom on what night? What year? What reality?

Men fuck around with other men. I know because I'm one of them; and I'm living to tell.

More Jockin': Homos in Sports, now on my author blog:

Homo QB Wins the Big One, But at What Price?
The Man Who Pegged Amaechi and Hardaway as Gay Speaks Out
College Football Players: Lighten Up on Your Gay Teammates!
The Biggest Fag in the 8th Grade On Men
Homophobia in the NBA: Who’s To Blame?
The “Out” Pro Athlete Dream
The Grapefruit Theory, or What Men Really Do