Dear Gay Men of America: Don't reduce me to a race.
Most anywhere I turn in the gay world, I see signs that tell me: Least Wanted: Black Gay Men.
I see them online in the countless personal ads that say, WHITES AND LATINS ONLY. I hear it in the voices of men who tell me, sorry, I don't do blacks.
Is it racism or just a preference? Whatever you call it, it brings me down and hurts my feelings.